Thursday, November 26, 2015

What do I wear underneath MY abaya?

If I titled this post, instead, what do Omani women wear under their abayas, I'd have a plethora of pictures to post for y'all, since women have different tastes, lifestyle dictates, and all. However, what I wear is rather dull (most days). Underwear for Omani women (unless they are over eighty---then they sometimes wear pantalettes like civil-war era re-enactors) is the same as it is for Western women. Clothes, are another matter entirely however, varying by individuals, geography, and lifestyle.

I personally go for comfort most days, since no one can see what I am wearing anyways, and sometimes I change when I get home. Abaya makes wearing things that are too tight, or too revealing for Oman, or too lazy-ass for anywhere else in the world, okay, happily.

I work, have kids, paint a lot, run around a lot, so it depends where I am going, who I am seeing, how much freedom of movement I need, and how hot it will be. Heat matters in Oman (at least to me!).
So on most days, for going to work, or going out somewhere with some ammount of ac, I wear t-shirts with black leggings. I actually am a devoted dress girl, and hate the world of pants, but this is kind of the jeans+sweatshirt-or-sweater casual thing I would have done somewhere colder than Oman.

I almost always wear gold sandals because they match everything---that---or black sandals (same reason). I walk a lot, sometimes outside. Open toe and flat with some ankle straps rule. I tend to go for flats because I can't walk in wedges without breaking an arm (Omanis are okay with height in a shoe if it is wedge) but Omanis (not all of them because my friend M has the maddest shoes ever when it comes to heeled creations) seem to dislike me in high heels. High heels are my friends. In my home country they weren't immodest, since I walk quietly and normally in them, however, abayas are longer in style here, and some Omanis think them to be not good for Muslim girls. So I wear flat sandals. Most days;). Sometimes I'm bad. Feels good. Weird thing unique to Oman. All the Emirati, Kuwaiti, and Saudi girls I know wear heels, but whatev'.

 Depending which t-shirt I wear, I wear different necklaces and rings and bracelets. Depending on time and mood, I switch between casual perfumes, and Omani incense. I always wear lipstick if I have time, and am seen carrying my own mug of coffee most places (even to get more coffee!).

The thing why I wear leggings is Omanis (women) insist that I do. Strange, that while no Saudi woman ever told me to put on pants under a modest length dress under an abaya, Omani women (and Emiratis sometimes) seem freaked out that my abaya will blow up and some dude will see my legs. To prevent them from having heat attacks over worry on my behalf, I oblige, as, if I wear my favoured dress with leggings, it will stick to my butt, and the abaya will stick too, and then it is like, what the hell, why bother with abaya right? So leggings with comfy t-shirts it is... See, it is totally not my fault that Oman has made me lazy less stylish. I blame my female Omani co-workers;).
If I am running late, I usually just throw an abaya on top of my pajamas. Yes, I do that, to go out, or to go to work. If the pajamas are too long for me, I sometimes wear high heels. If the pants were the right length to begin with, I sometimes end up wearing high heels anyways, because I can't find my sandals. My kids like to hide them in weird places. Inside the bouncy gym/trampoline? Or in the basket I use for firewood (don't ask!) behind a table.

Oh yes, never thought to look there.

...If the high heels have also been kidnapped, I sometimes end up using the bathroom shoes Omanis call "ship-ships". Because of an embarassing meeting I once ended up taking with a member of the royal family while wearing ship ships, I now have bought fake Hermes bathroom ship ships for the whole family just in case, and hope no one will notice how tacky my fake designer ship-ships are, when they forgive first the pajamas under the abaya;).
Sometimes I have guests of a more traditional sort... short hemlines and, my arms (and hair) will cause a family scandal... So I end up wearing either Omani lendli-type dress, or house dresses, which are like the dresses pictures above. They work always with a scarf of some kind, usually coloured or matching the dress if possible. I don't really have any of these that I like. I wish I could just wear abaya. I like abaya. However, if people come to my home they'll think I dress like a total sk*nk or something if I wear abaya in my own home;).
I wear less makeup with this outfit (because make-up is frowned upon by my visitors in this situation) and my accessories, unless they are rings or bracelets, are not allowed to show. Style bummer. Thus this is my least favourite type of outfit to wear in Oman. I like wedding dressing... it is allowed to be stylish, but this kind, not at all. So...
This kind of dress is also hot under an abaya, so if I have to wear it out or to someone else's house or I have to stay in it for over four hours, I run away, and pretend to be an anti-social hermit. I am serrious. Hate it that much. But alas, it is part of life here, since I am married to an Omani and this is part of his particular culture.
My favourite thing to wear under an abaya (closed front of course) for outside in this sun of ours is a sheath dress in a good quality fabric (so one doesn't sweat), or a jersey  (good quality) t-shirt---or---cocoon-style dress.
 If I am indoors all the time with good AC, and not caring about the covered legs rule, something plain pretty regardless of material is fine.
However, I like shorter hems and exposed arms and a comfy line at the shoulder/arm seams so there is no pinching for outside (and sometimes cut-outs to get some ventilation going on) because of the heat. I style these the same as I would a t-shirt and leggings, but might take more care to match my shoes exactly with the dress... Actually I care more in general. Dresses are my thing.
Abaya is great because I can wear things like the above places other women might get glares at (or creepy dude love) for doing the same.
That's mostly what I wear... but occasionally, between salaries, my washing machine breaks, or for some unknown reason, the water pressure in my area goes thus the washing machines doesn't work and I am sooooooooooo not strong enought to open the water heater with a wrench and hold a bucket up while I fix that issue by letting water flow to even out the pressure... Yes, I know how to do it, but I am simply vertically and upper-body strength challenged. Thus, looking pretty, to get husband to fix it involves a ballgown, right?
Ballgowns comes from running out of pajamas before telling husband about said washing machine issue, and having like, ten minutes to get on the way to work.
Thus, I have also been known to wear evening gowns (the least hot or bulky ball-gowney ones) to, like, work, same as I do for pajamas... Spending all day poked by some embroidery or beading in an office chair, or sweating through satin or velvet totally reminds one to ask husband to fix the water pressure upon the return home.
That's life in Oman;).

Wednesday, November 25, 2015

What do Omani men wear under their dishdasha?

This gentleman's wizar is just poppin' out the bottom of his dishdasha
I was going to title this post "what is worn under the dishdasha" but was worried that might come across as a little perverted. Nonetheless, I will carry on, since this is one of those things people seem unsure if it is okay to ask about, but end up asking me anyways;). Alas, hesitancy to write a post ammounts to posting photos of men in their "underwear" although... since a lot of Omani men seem totally okay to go out and do physical labour type work in their wizaar's it must be okay. So the question aswered today is: "What do Omani men wear under their dishdashas?"
Well, they traditionally and most commonly wear a wrap around piece of cotton called a "wiz-zaare" similar to a Scottish kilt but traditionally a wee bit longer;) as Arab men don't like to show above their knees for modesty purposes (it's a Muslim thing). It is folded a way across, and then tucked out and out down (usually).

It is usually white, but can be plain cream, or black, with a little bit of striping woven on the edging. Beautiful (and quality) examples can be purchased at the Omani handicrafts store in the Opera Galleria. My husband says they are good quality and that's where he actually does buy his.

Men might pair this with white cotton tank tops ("wife-beaters') or cotton or jersey underwear t-shirts, although my husband says in the old days they just wore wizar.

I usually see men on farms cutting palm trees or fishermen wearing just wizar out and about, although if you are particularily close with an Omani family you may get used to the site of people walking around in wizars...

I always tell my husband when we go shopping for like, button-up men's shirts or t-shirts, that really, it doesn't matter how cool or well-dressed that would look with, like jeans, since I know he's gonna end up wearing it to be more comfortable around the home with a wizar.... yeah... it'll never be "goodlooking".

Wizar out and about is very common closer to Yemen, and I do see Dhofari guys commonly out in just wizar... and sometimes, they way they are sitting like in a majlis setting, I see, like, their balls by accident, so.... I wonder, like, what's the big deal about their sister covering her face or not right? But anyways...

I prefer the fisherman's wizar because it is usally dyed a darker colour, and checked, and thus, not see-through. Wizaar in white cotton + white dishdasha + car headlights at night = awkward memories.

Nowadays however, some dudes may have begun to wear boxers under their wizar, or have stopped wearing wizar and wear shorts under their dishdashas... I have seen that in Muscat anyways.

Do you guys have any funny "wizar" stories?;) I have a tonne.

Thursday, November 19, 2015

Another Beautiful Arabian-tile Option I Found

Another tile we had been thinking of for the villas, when they were in their initial stages, was this bronze coloured metal backsplash option. The copper Franke kitchen appliances we went for also came in a beautiful antique bronze... this would have been gorgeous with it... I am still thinking to suggest it on an Arabian-influenced villa a friend is currently building. It would still look nice with her stainless-steel-everything-else if she gets bronze hardware for the kitchen doors knobs/handles . For only 5 omr and a little bit, it is super easy to clean, gorgeous, and you don't need a lot of it in your kitchen if it is only a backsplash... it would also look great on a wall as a focal point...

From Sharjah, 5 omr per square mtr, in Ethihad Center, aka Union Mall, +971 55 2990669

Tuesday, November 17, 2015

HAPPY NATIONAL DAY: Omanis Are Different Than They Were Ten-to-Fifteen Years Ago

Omanis are different than they were ten years ago. At least, to me;). As Sultan Qaboos grows another year older, I think of how much older we all are... the people of this country.

No, this will not be a post by that "annoying expat" who complains and thinks that Omanis have become in-hospitable suddenly, or depedent on government-hand-me-freebies-over-hard-work----and have-to-have-the-latest-i-phone--and-a-new-car-every-year-without-understanding-the-economy-type Omani.

As you probably know, I'm not that kind of expat. I know too many Omanis to have ever have been that kind of expat.

When I first came to Oman I lived in Madinat Sultan Qaboos (MQ) and Qurum. To me, at least because of my parents, most Omanis were people who lived in shiny white marble villas, which they invited you to for coffee and you'd sit on gilded furniture, and pretend you just ate that helwa you were just offered while you spat it into a planter or a napkin when no one was looking or passed it off to the toddler who was always happily about.

These Omanis (the wives anyways) didn't always (often) speak English, but the husbands or individual women, were at times, in management, in the oil and gas sector, or were, like, a former diplomat and his wife. They were kind. The wives always seemed more modern somehow, even in their traditional surroundings, and  often lower educational levels, than their husbands, somehow.

These people invited us to Al Bustan, invited us to weddings... They wanted to show us their culture, explain it, show us it wasn't what we were led to believe and liked to know our thoughts on issues, what we liked or didn't like about Oman and their culture, religion, everything.

...Otherwise, they were the sons of fishermen, or small shop owners, who lived in crumbling illogically planned and horribly (death trap) wired houses.

I had some very deep religious discussions with the admittedly non-religious security guards at PDO. They weren't live-in- marble houses kinds of Omanis generally. They all had limited education I knew, most of them lived in Seeb (the end of the world back then lol) and would struggle to afford the living conditions and maher (dowry) required for them to marry even a cousin. All of them were helping support their family (where a brother was studying). I knew they were often jealous of me and my sister (in the nicest possible way) for our freedom and lol, luxurious lifestyle.

The nickname "Princess" with my Omani friends came from more than one incident. Somehow, I could tell, they always thought I was just "slumming it" hanging out with them, trying to be their friend, like we were from two seperate worlds rather than the different planets one would figure different religions, countries, cultures, and races entailed to more racist/classist rude expat types of that era. To this day, since that gap was never closed, it saddens me, and I have to feel it wasn't my fault for that. I don't see the world that way. But they did, and some of them, most of them, still do. An expat seeking them out might be a temporary bridge, but a Muslim girl from where I'm from, knowing what I know, thinking the thoughts that I think, liking what I like, all that is too far a chasm for even childhood conversations that spanned oceans to ignore...apparently.

And then there were grossly ignorant Omanis, of all class types, even back then. I remember being told I should hurry up and get married before it was too late (at like, fifteen or something) by some old rich (well educated formally but a dumb-ass) Omani dude who wanted to sponsor my mother for some kind of business. Ten years ago, I thought all these people would be dead by now or replaced by wiser souls... Alas.

The Omani girls my age I knew as a kid were only two types... studying, studying, studying (maybe allowed to play tennis with me or shop but otherwise just allowed to study) or already married or engaged to get married or already married with one kid.

Boy, at sixteen, does that make you feel immature. When all the girls your age are like, "I have a husband and a baby, I am too busy to go to the movies", or, "I want to go to study in the U.K. so yeah, can't visit you or go to the beach or the mall", and the guys my age are like, "yeah, wish I could get married", and "I can't study because I have to pay for my brother to study while my salary helps pay for the gas for my Aunt who drives a school bus whose salary pays our rent" yada yada...

I felt bad about myself. I was a lazy under-achiever, that's for sure. I didn't change though;).

...We didn't often go too far out of Muscat, and when we did, we always assumed things about Omanis that were totally wrong... Still people were beyond friendly and generous. I got invited for meals, to weddings, always, and people were like, oh you like that old door you're photographing? Take it! It is a gift! One woman, she even gave me the abaya off her back when I said it was pretty in a camera repair shop. That kind of thing, just doesn't happen as often anymore. .

..Unless one is in Sohar, or else one travels to much more remote places.

...I found a place in the middle of nowhere in Rustaq one Eid weekend a year ago, and it was like, Oman hadn't changed.

Now I know Oman better, I know some of those differences were based on the ethnic mix of the Omanis I encountered, and the geography.

I've seen much much more of Oman since girlhood. I see less of the positive male end of it, of course, since I am Muslim now. I don't have deep conversations with good Muslim men who try to be examples of good qualities...and the good guys let the female sex of their nation example the entertainment of the country now. So I see more of the creeps and losers, than were balanced out, as a non-Muslim expat, I know.

More and more Omanis are used to expats now. That maybe makes some of them less inclined to like us (not all expats are great---as a consequence, as a kid, I'd much rather hang out at the PDO security gate playing James Bond with staplers than at the pool with a group of annorexic American girls saying how ugly they all were and fat when I was given the option). Us expats aren't as special as maybe we seemed before;)? We're not all princesses or rich girls or interesting or even all that skilled and smart at times.

I know now also, being involved in Omani culture, suppression of Omani women does exist, usually not by the government but usually by families. A lot of it is women-on-women suppression, or male ego being all dumb. Girls are more aware of it now though, then they were when I was a teen here. They have more dreams, they rebel more. They have plans for themselves, not just for their family.

I also know now, the studying Shatti girls, who grew up in palaces on the shorleline, with wide green lawns, whose mothers presided over smoking incense and perfume trays and gilded qhawa pots, are the minority in Oman, although they were the majority in my memories. They now run businesses, organizations, and own property. They have PHDs. They all usually marry before 35 but later than Omani girls elsewhere that I know. They are leaders in this country... unfortunately, they still don't know a lot of Omani women outside their circle. They all too often assume the world is the same everywhere... So do village girl housewives of course, but they do not get to speak for others, usually, so no danger.

I know the dispointment of that almost lost generation of Omani guys, who had to work while other family members got educated... They still sufffer badly from all that is wrong from old Omani culture (pride, ego) where they can't go back to to school or will seem dumb, or can't marry a wife who'd help support them (i.e a much richer wife) because that would be taking advantage of her. As noble and as foolish as they'll always seem to me, for the fact that they have not changed, there is something in them that is a little dead these days. That love for Oman, and this country... it is less true love than it was in our it is more a kind of,  poccessive pride? Oman is ours they say, but what is in their care, they do not treasure, not its beauty, uniqueness, heritage, or cleanness, and there is something dejected in that.

As those were the guys who told me about Islam (without being preachy) and made me laugh at all the ridiculous things I hated about being stuck here as a  kid, I feel... sad. ...Like we are all just sleeping. Some in beautiful gilded Shatti sugar-plum-lipstick-and-porsche-paint-dreams, and others, waiting to wake, praying for that alarm that will stir them.

No one is "lazy" per se, or expecting hand-outs from the government like I hear stupid internet expats accuse them of. But the dream is still a dream. Some things haven't changed that we all thought would change, or they changed to what we didn't plan or what was never a priority. People aren't as excited as they used to be about the future, or they are excited rather stupidly for something stupid, for something that is a mirage of what Omanis truly are... Does that make sense? People are still waiting. Everything is a ten year plan for the future. It isn't now, today.

I'm rambling lol...

Also, I am considered Omani now. That's different than when this blog began. I see what Omanis experience from time to time, feel it occasionally, get caught up simultaneously in the drama, the apathy, the polite avoidance, the mad scrambles, the grand passions, of the nation, all at once.

Omanis seem different to me... but in a way that is the direct influence of my own experiences, the broader geography of generalizations, cultural and religious immersion, and of course, the course of economic and socio-political development (or lack thereof in cases) for Omani,s as a whole, and as individual entities.

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Questions from Omani Men about How to Marry (and stay married) to Western Women

More than one Omani male looking to get married have written us OPNO girls, asking the same general questions. I am going to write my answers here for future easy reference.
Q1.) Dear OPNO, is it possible to find a good conservative western Muslim woman to marry?

A1.) Dear Omani Men, there are a lot of conservative and fully-practising-Islam western women. Many of us wear niqab, pray sunnah and fard prayers, may practice not mixing with men ect... but "good" is a wholly cultural definition.
When you think of "good" does it entail being quiet, submissive, gentle, willing to undertake housework without help from you, going-along-with-your-family-and-personal-preferences? In general, do you think of your Western wife being "good" like your Omani mother and sister are "good"?

 If so, you may find a woman exactly like this, but those are a rarer lot.

While there are some women of my culture who may even be okay being housewives, wearing niqab, and cooking and cleaning without any help from you, they all too often had to be very brave, to become Muslims in the first place, or to survive life in a Western country, and go against society there to do so.

So, if they think some of your Omani cultural practices are contrary to Islam (even in things that are not sinful) they may not go along with everything and be "good little Omani girls" ;). Most of us, will speak our minds, after time, and do what we think is right, even if you don't like it, or your society doesn't.

Q2.) Dear OPNO, will Western women accept to marry an Arab (Omani) and move here (Oman)?

A2.) Many women are totally okay to marry Arabs. And to move to Oman, sometimes...if you will support them to do so (financially, and emotionally). Emotional support is important, because your culture may be against our culture at times, and you have to stand by your wife occasionally, against society and maybe even your own family, and certainly, against the general law.

Although, if you don't already know a Western woman, I suggest you study your intentions as to why you want to marry a Western woman exactly.

If it is because you like our culture, individual personality, or like a convert's practice of Islam, most Western women are totally okay with that.

If it is because we are white, or less knowledgeable Muslims maybe that you can tell your own brand of Islam to, we think that is backwards and racist, and probably won't want to marry you, just a heads up. We'll wonder why you don't marry a girl from your own country instead, and be way happier.
I still laugh when I remember a Saudi guy who thought about marrying one of my friends and then changed his mind "because she looks too Arab" despite being Western. When he said he wanted to marry a Westerner what he meant was he wanted a white-skinned, blue-eyed, blonde-haired (pretty or beautiful) convert girl.

Well, let me tell you, all the blonde-haired or blue-eyed+white skinned convert girls I know, we all laugh at this Saudi guy even to today, and we all think he is an idiot and none of us would ever marry him or recommend him to a friend.

Q3.) Dear OPNO, I want to marry a Western Muslim woman, but my income is not a large one. Will she be okay with that?

A3.) Women have different requirements of a husband, depending on how she was raised. She may require a husband fully support her financially, she may not. However, in Islam a man should in the very least (even if his wife wants no money from him) be able to support a wife in case she is unable to support herself... Such as feed her, and your children, buy them all clothes, and pay rent for them to live seperate from your relatives or other wives. That's the minimum requirements in Islam. If you can afford to do this, than you can afford a wife.

But many women, myself included, work when we are able to, and I actually pay my own rent, bought my own house, buy most of my own clothes, and my children's, and sometimes food and electricity too;). That way my husband can buy me gifts and take me places with his money. That makes me feel special, and yet, close to my own culture, but as a Muslim, he has to be able to afford the minimum requirements. Because when I was pregnant, I was too ill to work, for example.
Some women, might be very different from myself, and require their husband provide them with a housemaid to clean for her, and a tutor for her children, and a cook for her food. If she had all these things provided by her parents before she married you, she has a right to ask for them, so tell her upfront if you cannot afford to do so, so she agrees to take less than is her right to ask for, up front. You'll be much happier that way.

Also, marrying a non-Omani is currently illegal in Oman without permission so if you should lose your job, consider how you would support your wife (are you able and willing to move to her country to be married). If not, you probably don't care for her enough to risk marrying her in the first place, without getting permission first.

Q4.) Dear Omani Princess, how do I get married if the law ( 92/93) won't allow it ( I am working in the government ) ?

A4.) You May lose your job. Your wife MAY get sent away (depending on the country of her passport). You MAY have to pay a fine. You will have to do a lot of paperwork, a lot of running around between different government offices. You may have to go to court.

Depends on what the government does, if you get permission, or you try to fight the law and marry anyways. If you aren't willing to risk any of that, don't do it.  Otherwise, try to get a scholarship or pay for your own study for a certain length of study outside of Oman (length of time as required by the Ministry of the Interior), and marry the woman you want to marry there, and apply for permission. Or move to her country and apply for citizenship there. That's a lot of work (and money) too.

Otherwise any advice I could give you, varies by a case-by-case basis, and what worked for the happiness of some, may cause you to lose your job or for your wife to be deported. If you aren't willing to take the risks, don't do it. You don't want it enough. If you can't afford the consequences, don't do it either, because you may just hurt the woman you love or yourself and any woman who loves you will not want you to be hurt for her sake. Make sure those factors aren't a strong enough issue for you.
Q5.) Dear Omani Princess, my family might not agree to the marriage, is it wise to do it anyways?

A5.) If your family doesn't agree to the marriage (my husband's family originally didn't) you have to be strong for it to work. If your mother refuses to meet your new wife even your new wife is a good Muslim or the woman who you love despite all odds, then you have to be willing to tell even your own mother she is wrong, and you won't change or put away any of your wife's rights for your family. If you can't do that, then don't go against your family. Don't marry a woman, to just later divorce her, or treat her less than she deserves, so that she eventually has to divorce you.

And if your family really wants what is best for you, and your happiness, if your wife brings those things to you, then your family will eventually come around. Just have the strength to hang in there and defend your wife when she is in the right.

Q6.) Dear OPNO girls, do you have any advice for making a marriage between Western cultured women and Omani men work and last?
A6.) We sure do!

Examine what you want in a marriage, why you want to get married in the first place, what you expect the role of a future wife to be, and the responsibilities of a husband and wife, before you explicitly seek out or contemplate a Western wife. Before marrying, discuss these things with her.

Your culture has less privacy and individuality than ours. Discuss living arrangements, cultural requirements such as treatment of your family members and guests, how a wife will dress, where she'll live and for how long, what she will be allowed to do, what she won't be allowed to do? What your future wife requires from you? How you want to raise children? What you would do and how you would both act if you had to divorce in the future?

Discussing these things beforehand, will make everything go a lot smoother later.

Have patience. Have strength. Try to understand your wife's cultural perspective. Do not try to force her to change overnight, or with ultimatums, ever. Spend a lot of time with her.

Your culture's ideas about marriage are different than ours. There is a lot of men-hanging-out-with-men and women relegated to hanging out all day with other women. Understand, not all Western (most of us) women enjoy this, and many of us even resent it.

There is probably more advice but I can't think of any right now;).

Friday, November 13, 2015

To all the French Nationals who read this blog

I just read the news and learned of the attacks on Paris.

To all the French nationals who read our blog, inshaAllah it is my deepest hope and prayer that all your friends and relatives are safe after the recent Paris attacks. Such acts are inexcusable, and murder. I don't know if this was Al Q, or ISIS, or Muslims, and as always, I pray not, but feel, as it seems to be the growing trend globally... If it is, I am deeply, deeply sorry and ashamed at the state of ignorance affecting my people, the Muslim ummah, that twisting and taking-out-of-context, our peaceful religion is so easy for Muslims these days.

{A wee added bit to this post, pertinent, as always, from fiercely honest blogger Ange, who has said it rightly }.
That said, I have been saying for a long-time France has been making itself a target. Even myself, being a "peaceful" Muslim would be hard pressed not to deeply dislike and feel and express anger at the French for their treatment of Muslim women concerning not being allowed in government places and schools wearing hijab and the total ban on wearing the niqab(face veil), effectively making these women not citizens despite hypocritically declaring "liberty fraternity equality" and all that Republican b.s.. I have many French Muslim friends who have become expatriated in order topractice their religion despite having a deep love for their french culture and aspects of its heritage (not its history with Algeria of course).
Generally most women in the world love Paris, us hijabis not excluded. We don't judge the entire culture and people by some recent stupidness. And I would like to say on our behalf, that murder of non-violent persons, is murder in Islam, and I hope the organizers of the attacks, and their perpetrators, are caught and punished. My heart goes out to the victims and their families.

To the French people, stay strong, and don't let the acts of a few change you. Carry on as if nothing has changed. That's what terrorists don't want from you.They want a severe reaction to justify their targeting you.

Thursday, November 12, 2015

I still love this Arabian-style tile...

I still love this contemporary copper-coloured Arabian-style tile (that was 1200 dirhams in Sharjah). That's a bit expensive, I know, but back when the villas were going to be Arabian in design, not European, I had decided to use this tile for the kitchen backsplashes. Maybe in the shower niches as well, if we went for copper fixtures everywhere, not just the kitchen appliances.

Alas, no more pretty copper Arabian-geometic stars tiles.

Isn't it pretty?

Waiting for the next project where I'll have the excuse to use it.